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I am a Professor in psychology at Bhim Rao Ambedkar College, University of Delhi with more than 20 years of teaching experience.I am a Doctorate in Psychology from University of Delhi. Taught BA Hons Applied psychology, MA applied psychology and Ph.D psychology to students of Delhi university. Executive editor Journal of positive psychology. Executive editor Academia (An international multidisciplinary journal on social science, humanities and languages) Successfully completed ICSSR major research project, UGC major research project and Innovative research project from University of Delhi. Monitoring committee member of a research project under the aegis of BSF (Border Security Force), Ministry of Home Affairs on stress management. Supervising 6 Ph.D researches from University of Delhi, 2 from Amity University, 1 from Jamia Millia Islamia. Member ICSSR research project committee. Selection committee memeber of Indian Oil, NTPC, GAIL India, Solar energy corporation. Authored a book on Criminal Psychology published by LEXIS NEXIS India. Delivered invited lectures at IIT Roorkee, IIM Lucknow, IGNFA Dehradun, IWST Bangalore. Presented my paper at ICAP 2014, Paris, France.

Aug 29, 2010

Cognition in the age of virtual reality – From cultural contextual & developmental perspective:-


Microsoft cofounder Bill gates told his audience at the 2004 electronics shows that convergence, the erasure of distinction among media does not happen until you have everything in a digital from that the consumer can easily use on all the different devices. What  becomes of the distinction between newspapers, magazines, radio and television when all can be accessed anywhere, anytime on a single handed device and when each medium can combine graphics, video, printed text, sound, music and interactive to satisfy our entertainment and information needs?
                               We are in the midst of a revolution in communication that is transformating social orders and cultural order around the world and in our country. For many of, the consequences of this revolution have been both pleasant and benign. Powerful tool of mass media invades our privacy, shapes our views of the social world and whether it enriches our thinking and creativity or it further alienates us from gaining a holistic perspective need Careful analysis by the academia of different disciplines and psychology in particular which claims to be critical nourishes and preserver of our behavioral repertoire. Certainly people can apply idiosyncratic interpretation to the context of media before them, and they can choose to direct however much attention they wish to the screen. They can choose to actively seek meaning from media content or they can choose to passively decode it. But their control and involvement can’t directly alter the message being transmitted. Political leaders across the world exploit and manipulate the power of new media technology to alter public attitudes and beliefs.
                                    Lazarsfeld (1941) argued that it was not enough to merely speculate about the influence of media on society. It was not enough to assume that political propaganda is powerful- hard evidence was needed to prove the existence of such effects. Lazasfeld’s most famous efforts the “voter studies” actually began as an attempt to demonstrate the media’s power. During 1950’s limited effects notions about media gained acceptance within academia (Campbell- 1960 Deutschmann & Danielson 1960). This theory views society as a number of interlocking pluralistic groups led by opinion leaders who rely on media for information about politics and the social world.
                                   In a controversial essay, Bernard Berelson, who worked closely with paul lazarsfeld, declared the field of mass communication research to be dead (Berelson 1959). Ironically he wrote his essay just before the field of media research underwent explosive growth. Neo- Marxist left – wing social theorist believe that media enable dominant social elites to maintain their power – media provide the elite with a convenient, subtle yet highly effective means of promoting worldviews favorable to their interest.
                                      When we are use media to serve certain purposes gain information manage moods and seek excitement it is called “meaning making perspective” ability to induce desired experience. But at the same time we are caught in a process that brings unanticipated and unwanted consequences. For example if you are to catch a train and you get a message about its running behind the schedule it saves your time and energy but even if you are praying suddenly an hyper active caller call’s many a times to your mobile and the land line number it appears horrible  interference in your private space.
                                    Social – psychological and cultural research must be carried out a number of levels from macroscopic to the microscopic. How far socially constructive and creative behavior patterns are finding it difficult to survive as a means of our enriched intellectual and cultural existence. Most of the significant and interesting forms of human traditions are on the verge of extinction such as story telling, deep relationship sharing folks the gap of success & failure, classical music, interpersonal discussion, tolerance and countless other habits that brought more satisfaction for a quality living. We do not want to be guided by elders explaining us our behaviors. We say we think critically and media has the least role in deciding my preferences. Ironically we are also convinced that other people are much more likely to be influenced by media (the third person effect – Tewksbury, Moy and weis 2004). Scientists physical or social deal in theory. Theories are stories about how and why events occurs: - scientific theories begin with the assumption that the universe, including the social universe created by acting human begins, reveals certain basic fundamental properties and process that explain the ebb and flow of event’s in specific processes. (Turner 1988 P.I.).
                                       As communication theorist Katherine Miller explained “Different school of thought will define theory in different ways depending on the needs of the theorist and beliefs about the social world and the nature of knowledge’’ (2002 p.i.g).
                                         Scholars have identified four major categories of communication. Theory – post positivist, hermeneutic theory, critical theory and normative theory and they share a common and increased understanding of social and communicative life but they also differ in their goals, their ontology- their view of nature of reality their epistemology – their view of how knowledge is created and expanded and their axiology – their view role of values in research & theory building.
                                                 Thus definition of social science in mass – communication theory is so ambivalent that it requires more merging to a super ordinate goal of better explaining and analyzing behavioral perspective. The goals of post – positive theory are explanation, prediction and control. Its ontology accepts that the world even social world exists apart from our perception of it; human behavior is sufficiently predictable to be studied systematically. They might believe and explain which commercials will be more effective to control behavior of targeted citizens. Hermeneutic theory is “the study of understanding, especially by interpreting action and text (Little John – 1996p. 208). But in a given social context how people interpret their own lot is called social hermeneutics. Ethnographer Michael Moerman (1992 p.23) explained social hermeneutic theory tries to explain how event’s “in the alien world make sense to the alien’s how their way of life coheres and has meaning and value for the people who live it.”
                                                    Any product of social interaction – a movie the president or Prime Minister Address to its citizen’s a love letter, can be a source of understanding. The ontology of social hermeneutic theory says that there is no truly measurable social reality. Instead reality can’t be understood except through a consideration of the mental & social processes that are continually constructing that reality (Katherine Miller 2002 p. 52) personal and professional values are a lens through which social phenomena are observed. Critical theory starts from the assumption that the social world is deeply flawed and in need of transformation. Most critical theories are concerned with the conflict of interest in society and the way communication perpetuates domination of one group over another. What is real, what is knowable in the social world is the product of the interaction between structure (the social world’s rules norms & beliefs) and agency how human behave and interact in that world. Reality then to critical theory is constantly being shaped and reshaped by the dialectic (the two structures agency).critical theories see media as an essential tool employed by corporate elites to constrain how people views their social world and to limit their agency in it.
                                           
                                    A normative media theory explains how a media system should operate in order to conform to or realize a set of ideal social values. Its ontology argues that what is known is situational or knowable only for the specific social system in which that system exits. Its epistemology is based on comparative analysis- we can only judge (and therefore understand) the worth of a given media system in comparison to the ideal espoused in which it operates. Its axiology by definition is value laden. Mass society theory made several basic assumptions that media are a malignant force which has a power to reach out and influence the minds of average people. Once people’s minds are influenced by media it can bring sort- term and  long term consequences. Average people are vulnerable to media because they have been cut off and isolated from traditional social institution, debasing higher forms of culture and a bringing a general decline in the individual & social well – being.
                                        Among the originators of mass society notion was a German sociologist Ferdinand Tonnies. He proposed a simple dichotomy – gemeinschaft or folk community and gesellchaft a modern industrial society. Gemeinschaft “consisted of a dense network of personal relationship based heavily on kinship and the contact that occurs in a small closed village. Norms were largely unwritten and individuals were bound to mutual interdependence that touched all aspects of life (Fukuyama – 1999 p. 57). In addition a collective has the character of a gemeinschaft insofar as its members think of the group as a gift of nature created by a super natured will (Martindate – 1960 p. 86).
                                       In contrast the gesellschaft represent the frame work of laws and other formal regulation that characterized large, urban industrial societies. Social relationships were more formalized & impersonal: - individual did not depend on one another for support and were therefore much less morally obligated to one – another (Fukuyama 1999 p.p. 57-58).
                                     French sociologist Emile Durkheim offered a theory with the same dichotomy but with a fundamentally diffrent interpretation of modern social order. In Durkheim’s conception people are bound to one another through consensus and traditional social role like the parts of a great engine – mechanical solidarity. In Durkheim’s theory people are like specialized cells of a body rather than like cogs of machine. He compared modern social orders to animals rather than to machines. He used the term organic solidarity to refer to the social ties that bind modern social order together. Remember that he has used the metaphor of folk cultures not modern society. Durkheim’s praise for organic solidarity has been echoed in the many theories that have extolled the virtues of new media and new technology. Proponent’s of new media usually argue that communication technology will permit the formation of important new social  bends. Frequent allusions to an internet fueled “electronic democracy” in which the people can directly communicate with their leaders. There will be “electronic town halls” where the people will be able to decide what they want government to do for them. Durkheim in hi book suicide (1951) documented rising suicide rates in those countries where tradition religions and social institutions had lost their preeminence. In his later work, Durkheim showed growing concern for the declining strength of common morality. (Ritzer 1983 p. 99) .people is no longer bound by traditional values in which greed’s are replacing our needs and passion our replacing our compassion. In the name of globalization moral virtue included is on the sale, fantasy replacing the real and everyone wants an objective world of him self or herself. We are mostly unwilling to accept the peaceful co-existence of others. It is far easier to take refuge in surrogates, which neither inhibits, us or our cravings.
                                            Moral and emotional knowledge is being replaced with pop culture that provides easy going forms of social cohesion. We have been easily replacing the harmonic, rhythmic texture of classical music and aesthetics with a grammarless murmur of repetitious noise. There is a rising gap across the generations and the young generation has spontaneously acquired a culture which has increased the gap ever before between a teacher and the taught. Our traditional, social, political and cultural institutions are facing a threat to their status quo and phenomenal rapid diffusion of interest and worldwide web is facilitating the formation of multinational alliances that is challenging the existing elites as well. The rapid technological challenges effected massive media industry mergers. According to journalist and media critic Ben Bagdikian (2004), the numbers of corporations controlling most of the country’s news papers magazines, radio and television stations, book publishers and movies studio’s have shrunk from fifty, when he wrote the first edition of his classic The media monopoly to five today. This concentration of owner ship of media industries led him to comment as follows:-
                                             Left to their own devices a small number of the most powerful firms have taken control printed and broadcast news and entertainment. They have their own style of control not by official edict or state terror but uniform economic social goal. They have their own way of narrowing political and cultural diversity not by promulgating official dogma, but by quietly emphasizing ideas and information congenial to their profits & political dereferences. Although they have a disproportionate private influence over the political authorities and over public today. (1992 p. p 239 -240).Bagdikian, a strong proponent of media freedom is not mass theorist. Mass mediated propaganda is spread throughout the world which deeply affects our politics and culture. Propaganda freely uses lies and deception to persuade. Propaganda has also been classified as black, white and gray (Snowball 1999). Black propaganda involves deliberate and strategic transmission of lies. White propaganda involves intentional suppression of potentially harmful information and ideas and promotion of ideas that distract attention from problematic events. Gray propaganda involves transmission of ideas that may be true or false. Propaganda then and now live in an either/or good/evil world. Even concept’s like truth consent and justice are manufactured through engineering consent of people a term coined by father of modern public relation Edward L. Bernays by mastering techniques of persuasion & communication. Harald Laswell’s propaganda theory (1934) referred to the concept of master or collective symbols associated with strong emotions and   possess the power to stimulate beneficial large scale mass action if they are used wisely. It is no wonder our eating habits, reading habits, recreational habits and even interpersonal sharing are becoming subject to manipulation by propagandists. The discrepancies that exist in our head is ever widening. Pictures of outside world are being projected that India is growing in terms of overall economic indicators but the well being of an average man on the street is so pathetic that Supreme Court has to intervene to provide shelter to the people in the national capital and what to talk of other remote areas. Average man are becoming prisoners of this dilema of benevolent technocracy and economic liberalization on one hand and conducting a balance in managing everyday friction of their livelihood. Even a person whose monthly income is not more that five to six thousand rupees the parent and his family is expending one thousand rupees to meet their mobile expenses. Ideas are floated that every average person is rational to judge good ideas from bad is nothing but crucifying and glossing harsh realities. Media market place is a bit more complicated than the market place for refrigerators or tooth paste. Its ideas are traded freely among people it is not necessary best ideas will prevail. The meaning of individual messages can vary tremendously from one person to the next. If people lack discriminating ability it is very likely bad messages distributed freely are accepted and in the end message producer earns a profit. With the increase in mobile and internet density there was a mushrooming growth of cyber cafes and how far these are adding to the creativity of our youth is potential case of critical analysis. Safety, security. Inter – community sharing and social emotional well being is degrading.
                                      Social responsibility should not be something that is discussed in the classroom or academic debates but how far it unites cultural & social well being must correspond to the reality of the day. Whether dramatization more in the investigation of truth and portrayals of public good is generating barriers to freedom or enhancing our diverse ethos. A movement of sort is needed to steer mass – media towards reinvigorating public life which does not satisfies the appetite of a selective few and exclude the common ordinary citizens. Social cognitive theory assumes that observer can acquire symbolic representation of behaviors and mass – media provide information on which they base subsequent behavior.
                                     Writing in 1994 Bandura summed the accumulated knowledge of social cognitive theory to conclude that television viewers “acquire lasting attitude, emotional reactions and behavioral proclivities towards person’s places or things that have been associated with modeled emotional experience. W. James Potter (1997) identified Reward/Punishment, consequences motive, realism, humor, identification and arousal as encouraging factor of acquisition of mass – media behavior through modeling. Development perspective assumes that children undergo extensive and varied cognitive growth between birth and adulthood that is extremely rich complex and multifaceted. Logically, older children will read television differently than will younger children. This developmental perspective seeks to describe and explain the nature of the communicative differences between four year older six years’ olds & adults. Research indicates that although even children as young as seven can tell the difference between commercial and other televised content, they might not understand the commercial selling intent and that much advertising especially premium advertising cos that promise a gift or toy with purchase can cause conflict between parent and children.
                                                 A process called spiral of silence needs special attention of the researchers. Because of people’s fear of isolation or separation from those around them, they tend to keep their attitudes to themselves when they think they are in minority. If various viewpoints about agenda items are ignored, marginalized or trivialized by media reports, then people feel reluctant to talk about them. It is noteworthy to highlight and explore the possibilities where intra – personal, interpersonal inter group identities grow in terms of confidence harmonious co-existence creative climate of collective and pluralistic living. We should engage ourselves in research and discussion that may result in participated without fear of exclusion and infuse elements of social, cultural & cognitive inclusion of all. This is an attempt to uncover the all encompassing cover that is how virtual reality is affecting us and it needs more the attention of psychologists from an interdisciplinary approach.   

Migration from a psycho – social and cultural perspective in the context of global economic slowdown


Paper Presented in National Seminar Shyamlal College Univ. of Delhi on 5th of Feb 2010                

 India’s history has been one of great invasions and migration, with much circulation of population from one place to another. Rural to urban migration in India and abroad and migration in the past two decades had been phenomenal. The global economic liberalization, visa rules, work – permits and major incentives in information technology sector and lack of opportunities in India are some of the contributory factors to this rapid pace of migration. Demographic characteristics of different states of India have changed dramatically in past two decades or so and intensity may vary depending on the opportunities but most of them have undergone this process and it is a process that is still on. New discovering in the field of computer’s and IT profession, huge urbanization processes in the Arab world improved mode of transportation and communication networks have been the major factors of migration. This process of migration in some situation was either due to push factors of social discrimination, starvation lack of Information, and lack of infrastructural facilities or due to pull factors of better place for learning, employment motivation to affiliate with the powerful nations and citizens to derive more material benefits and perceived better living conditions. Access to city life is considered a mark of social prestige and upward social mobility, rural scholars, artists; artisan’s, sports person, women and even unskilled workers aspire to move to cities. Role of Industrial work force increased with advancement in Industries and better employment opportunities. Migration is not only to big cities but also to medium and small cities. The process of migration is not only masculine in character but a large number of women have also moved out of their geographical and cultural place of origins. It is indeed difficult to propose that great dominance of village life in India is either an exaggerated compulsion or a conscious choice. Even deficient amount of statistics is perpetuated to maintain this pluralistic and diversified existence of India.
                                The purpose and objective of this paper is to highlight the issue of migration more in Indian context less in International context and the consequences of psycho – social and cultural manifestations in context of global economic slowdown.
First I would like to highlight the cultural object. The process by which cultural elements are borrowed from another society and incorporated into the culture of the recipient group is called diffusion. Diffusion is extremely common Linton an anthropologist has set its impact at the rate of 90 percent. That is not more than 10 percent of traits of most advanced cultures can be attributed to each society’s own unaided efforts. The far reaching effects of diffusion can be understood with the help of an example of a Mumbaikar conservative Hindu citizen. This man awakens in the bed built on a pattern which has been originated in sandalwood furniture of karnatka, his bed covers made from cotton of Gujrat. Silk kurta and pajamas spun and woven by muslim artisan’s from Lucknow, and washes with soap Mysore sandal originated in south India. Before going out for a breakfast he glances through glass window for which materials and manpower used are from Bihar and UP his knife is of steel made in Muradabad and main entry of his house is decorated with Madhubani paintings. The newspaper through which he forms much of his opinions is The Hindu and N. Ram is its Editor or chief Moderator of the views published in it. For his sports entertainment he glues to the television set Samsung (Made in Korea) and in the one – day match against Pakistan Tendulkar is out on Zero and M.S. Dhoni hits a century. His feeling of Mumbaikar gets frustrated and he wants to watch a movie in which actor is Amitabh Bacchan and music composer is A.R. Rahman. As he encounter these dosages of alien culture as a conservative citizen he goes to the temple to be considered a hundred percent Mumbaikar Lord Rama Temple who was also born in Ayodhya.
                                            History is full of examples where new inventions have spread farther and farther depending upon its utility. Diffusion takes place either with direct contact or through intermediaries. The invention of paper is attributed to the Chinese Ts’ailun in A.D. 105. First it was imported from other countries and now every place has become its local manufacturer. In stimulus diffusion knowledge of trait belonging to another culture stimulates the invention of local equivalent. Whole range of western music industry borrows heavily from Indian Classical music. The practice of Yoga, Aahram’s and spiritual enters are far more equipped in western countries than it is in India. While there is a temptation among the scholars to view the dynamics of diffusion similar to a stone sending concentric ripple over still water, this would be an oversimplification of the paradoxical nature of diffusion actually works. Element of material culture such as mechanical processes and Instruments, traits of sports and good health, academic produce are easily selected or rejected on its utility factor. But a real difficulty lies in the transfer of social values and social structure that has long term psychological implications. The practices of drinking wine, playing cards failed to diffuse into Muslim cultures. The basic region behind this is lack of utility of such behavior patterns. Marriages other than its own caste, drinking by women in large numbers could not become a social reality India however selective harmonizing traits of dining discrimination of upper castes with lower castes changed in the urban living conditions and spread of education. When a group or society is in contact with a more powerful society the weaker group is often obliged to acquire cultural elements from the dominant group. This process of extensive borrowing in the context of super – ordinate subordinate relation between societies is usually called acculturation. In contrast to diffusion which involves the voluntary borrowing of culture elements, acculturation or the wholesale borrowing of culture traits comes about as a result of some sort of external pressure. The loss of prestige of established authority is perceived by the host community in case of massive migration population coming in to their place. They also consider a threat to their economic and culture freedom. Social tension is generated through state of mind in which an actor finds uneasy in his environment, apprehensive of future event, worried for the fulfillment of needs restless of assumed resource space occupying by the migrants and uncertain in life because of increase in competition over resources.     
                                     Tension and conflict are both inclusive and exclusive state where one influences the other. Tensions may be both an index as well as aftermath of conflict. The justification and rationalization regarding the functional value of tension depend on ideology, placement and position of the beneficiaries or the losers in a given social order. Tension may also depict a state of misperception conditioned by various personal and situational factors – the roots of which may be in a variety of factors such as prejudice/ stereotype/ discrimination and changing social realities. Stereotype about groups (Us & them) concern the beliefs and expectations that we have concerning what members of those groups are like. Stereotypes can include more than just traits, physical appearance, activity preferences and likely behaviors are common components of stereotype (Biernat & Thmpson 2002). The tendency to perceive  persons belonging to groups other than one’s own as all alike known as out group homogeneity effect ( Linville etal 1989). “They are all the same” or are they? Some illusory correlation can also be formed that does not exist in reality. As an attitude prejudice is reflected in the negative feeling or emotions experienced on the part of prejudice person.
                                        Prejudice originates when members of certain groups perceive material or symbolic threat to their self – esteem. People want to see their own group positively (Tajfel & Turner 1986). According to realistic conflict theory (Bobo - 1983) prejudice develops out of the struggle over land, jobs, adequate in policy making bodies and other desirable outcomes. When such experiencing competition escalates both sides begin to experience hostility and come to view each other in increasingly negative terms. They may label each other as “enemies” view their own group as morally superior and draw the boundaries between themselves and their opponents more firmly and under extreme conditions they may come to see as opposing groups as not even human (Bar. Tal 2003).
                                           The direction of these tensions in moderated or exaggerated by people in power and the Mass – Media. These processes not only determine the direction of social tensions but also influence the mode of their manifestation. The psychological modes of expressing social tensions are signs, gestures, mistrust, apathy aversion, fear, arrogance non co-operation sabotage and at times physical attack. A culturally rich person exercises considerable restraint tolerance and understanding in interacting with other. Since the process of migration has assumed a sizable pace and they also want legitimacy, respectability and it is also motivated by the local leaders vote – bank politics. Those parties or leaders who help them in their settlement process do not forget to perpetuate this us and them divide to strengthen their vote – bank. Interesting aspect of this evaluation is to highlight that social tensions are not always dysfunctional and it has a positive side too that may lead to introspections, invention, creation of idea and cultural synthesis.
                                         These factors of discrimination can be reduced on learning not to hate. One crucial factor to reduce inter group prejudice is the experience of working together. Increased contact between people from different groups can lead to growing recognition of similarities between them. Even in case of interdependence between groups of us and them can favor group equality conceptions. It is noteworthy to understand that had migration been a major problem it would have got strong support of the host society as a whole. But reality suggests that these factors of us and them divide are well orchestrated by of greed, vote – bank politics and other factors. Once these factors of divide is sown its seed the manifestations are not in the hands of those who are its originators and its spreads to the common mass who become victims of such negative prejudice manifestations. No need to mention the creative appetite of media flash with breaking news of such trivial comments. Which acts as reinforcer? The process of global economic slowdown has also resulted in the loss of job inside and outside India. But its impact on Indian scene has not been as severe as it was in case of other western countries. The behavior pattern of an average Indian to save major part of their earning and it has been a great relief in this time of crises. Some of our cultural traits to adjust in two extremes of misery and luxury with equal ease have also been a major factor of relief. We have a behavior pattern of co-existence of the both hardship and easy going life attitudes at the same time. The final contention of this paper is to mention the fact that migration as such is not a problematic phenomenon and if proper mechanisms are in place that of governance most important and other traits of diversity in unity takes the center stage it can be an enriching process. Economic slowdown has also to do a lot with the attitudinal propositions which we can withstand with our values of need based and not greed based consumption pattern. It we are guided by our indigenous value system not copying the behavior pattern or life styles of western countries I strongly believe even impact of such crises will be negligible. What is more needed is selective adaptation of reasoned behavior and qualities and what is not at all needed is the rejection of priorities preferences based on unrealistic prescription of others. Both at a societal and Interpersonal level there is a need to harmonize our values to extend our feeling of togetherness and well being.




Antisocial, Unsocial and Prosocial Effects of Media Content – A Critical Understanding from Psychosocial and Cultural Perspective


Paper Presented at CPDHE Refresher Course in Psychology

6th December 2010



      The impact of viewing television, motionpictures and internet is one of the newer area that has drawn the attention of policy-makers, sociologists, psychologists and even the common man of our society.  Underlying psychological principles of learning, motivation, perception, values, ethics and group processes are experiencing spontaneous changes with a pace that has not happened in the past.  Media as an industry has a different perspective and priority and academic researchers are hardly aware of the agenda setting objective of media.  Social cognition theory suggests that repetitive and redundant portrayals of trivialized social reality does leads to new intrapersonal and interpersonal topics of importance.  Desensitization accounts for people who are heavily exposed antisocial acts and become less conscious about the consequences.  Drawing upon the concepts of cognitive new associationism, priming effect analysis suggests that elements of thought or feeling or memories are parts of a network connected by associative pathways.  Thus for some time after a concept is activated there is an increased probability that it and other associated parts of the network will come to mind again thus creating the priming effect.  There are many antecedent variables such as media structure, media technology, social circumstances, psychological variables, needs, values and beliefs that all related to gratification pattern of the audience.  Media content can spin social reality in terms of your eating behaviors, educational preferences, dress, recreational preferences by cultivating of perceptions of new social reality.  Reality shows, different T.V. serials highlight the selective aspect and focus it to be the topics of reality.  Learning from media environment results in perception of real social environment.  T.V. viewing of programmes of paranormal activities such as palm-reading, vastu, previous life experiences, astrology, tele-kinesis does help in creating a belief in paranormal experiences.  Valentine day celebrations, new year parties, excessive use of internet chatting, frequent SMS messaging for any trivial communication and message exchanges an each festivities such as Diwali, Dusshehra, Raksha-bandhan, Independence day, Republic day, Father’s Day, Daughter’s day, are slowly and gradually becoming a ritual part of our behavior.  A new pattern of cognitive framing is taking place consciously and unconsciously among heavy viewers and heavy users and consuming much of their time.  The generation gap is also increasing in disproportionate manner because of cultivation of a new social reality.  It will erroneous to assign the same degree of impact without taking into consideration the demographic and cultural context variables.  Psychological dependence on internet causes person’s to onlineaholics who ignore family, work and friends as they devote most of the time to surfing net.
            Through this paper an attempt will be made to understand various psycho-social and cultural variables affecting prosocial aspect of behavior-affilation, well-being and antisocial and unsocial aspect of behavior.  Of being violent, selfish lack to concern with family and society.